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7 Hair Care Essentials for Good Self Care in 2020

Most of us desire strong, healthy looking hair. It seems like trends and fads, though, keep us chasing after the newest shiniest objects promising us health or the kind of hair we wish we had, rather than what is always best for us. Healthy hair, though, goes beyond the latest shampoo or conditioner brand promise, beyond the latest “natural healing compound”, and beyond even regular trims at the hair dresser. Healthy hair starts and grows at the root, and gaining health after a set back starts at the roots too.

What can you do besides using caution in having very tight hair styles, regular trims, conditioning, gentle brushing before washing, reduce heat tool use, and be sure you are checking ingredients of conditioners and shampoos and using the same brands of those? 

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The following seven blog posts help guide us back to those roots, and interestingly, most also guide us back to general health. There are just no short cuts to gaining or retaining good health or healthy hair, I’ve learned this past year. 

1. Water
As discussed in Six Ways Drinking Water Benefits Hair and Scalp there are lots of great reasons for health to generally be drinking more water. Our bodies are 2/3 water. Drinking water is superior to any other fluid intake, like soda, coffee, or other beverages.

What are the many benefits of drinking water for hair and the scalp?

First, one of the major benefits to drinking more water is a hydrated scalp, which reduces flaking, itching, and dandruff. A good shampoo helps, but hydration is important.

Second, for adequate hydration prevents hair loss and promotes hair growth. Water repairs hair and adds needed nutrients. It even makes hair shinier.

Third, increasing water intake prevents hair breakage and frizz. Especially if there is frequent chemical processing, which dries out hair, being hydrated strengthens cuticles and hair follicles. 

Next, drinking more water balances hair pH, as well as filters excess toxins and minerals found in blood that affect hair health.

In addition, “Water activates all these nerve endings and other sensors in our skin and scalp that enhances the natural vitality of hair roots.”

Finally, hair hygiene also matters. Rinsing hair in cool water, rather than hot water promotes shine and gloss. Softer water makes hair more manageable, and prevents color fade.

2. Promoting Healthy Hair and Scalp in Hygiene: Infection Prevention
In Promoting Healthy Hair and Scalp in Hygiene, I discuss the dangers of going to sleep with wet hair. Going to bed with wet hair sets up conditions for a warm, moist environment for a fungal infection, especially since it takes so long for hair to dry. Scrunchie or fabric hair ties harbor fungal infection, and allows the infection to spread if it’s not washed in a hot wash/dry every few days. It also holds in the dampness and prevents air flow to the scalp. Cotton pillowcases cause drying hair to stay on a damp warm surface, thereby promoting more fungus growth.

Once a fungal infection (dermatophytes) sets up on the scalp, often called ringworm (tinea capitis), there is a red scaly rash with irregular borders on the scalp. “The fungi attack the outer layer of skin on the scalp and the hair shaft.” The infection literally cuts the hair at the follicle shaft, so hair loss is occurring. There may be itching and burning. There are photos and more information of what the condition looks like at the Mayo Clinic website.

It is contagious in that the fungus is on anything the scalp touches. This includes hair styling tools (comb/brush), elastics and barrettes and scrunchies. It includes pillow cases, coat hoods, and hats. A child who shares any of those items can also spread the infection to another child, or even to a beloved pet, as carriers of the infection. A family might also find that the infection carrier is actually that pet who could be asymptomatic!

Read more about the fungal treatments, how to handle, and prevention tips in Promoting Healthy Hair & Scalp: Ringworm Prevention Tips.

3. 23 Tips for a Healthy Scalp & Hair
In 23 Tips for a Healthy Scalp & Hair, I discuss how there are a lot of opinions about how to have a healthy hair and scalp. Not all of the advice given is based on science or research.Testing for cosmetics and hair products is done by manufacturers selling the product. The FDA gets involved only when there is a problem with a product.

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23 Tips For A Healthy Scalp & Hair

In my free downloadable e-book, I list twenty-three tips for seeking a healthier scalp and hair. The tips involve use of hair tools, how to keep the tools, towels, and pillowcases clean, best hair care practices, hair hygiene, and best health care practices in diet. You can see the full post here. 

4. 9 Nutrients for Growing Healthy Hair
While I was recovering from surgery, and after my fabulous not so fashionable neuro-surgical hair cut, I needed to know what I needed to eat and be nutritionally sound to heal well, and to grow my hair back as quickly as I could. I sell hair clips as my business, after all, and hair is needed for demonstrating that.

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9 Nutrients For Growing Healthy Hair

In the course of that nutrition research, I wrote an e-book to share, 9 Nutrients for Growing Healthy Hair.  It is has literally been how I eat, and continue to do so. Honestly, it was how I’ve wanted to eat, like a craving for good health. As it turns out what is good for hair is also good for healing. Read the full post here. This is exactly what my body also needed for gaining my physical strength and incisional healing too. This is a no fad plan.

5. Three Tools We Use For Stronger Healthier Hair
I’ve alluded before, especially in my Lilla Rose video, that our family has had various not so pretty hair issues in the past. A few years ago, we found three tools for our arsenal of better hair care leading to better hair health and two of those were recommended to us by our hair stylist. In Three Tools We Use for Stronger Healthier Hair I share those tools that benefited us.

 

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We had to gently twist A-Grape’s hair back in July/August of 2013 in order to hide a bald spot and she only had enough hair to gather into a mini Lilla Rose flexi clip.

6. Reverse Hair Washing
In early 2017, I switched to using Art Naturals Organic Moroccan Argan Oil Shampoo and Conditioner in my reverse hair washing method. I’ve faithfully conditioned, leaving the conditioner on for 3-5 minutes in the shower, and then washed. Sometimes I would condition after washing too. I stopped doing coconut oil “deep condition” treatments. I enjoy fewer fly aways, shiny, soft hair. My grays are softer and sparkle.  I’ve noted, too, that while my hair is air drying, it is actually drying faster. I now use a Lilla Rose bamboo hair towel and rosewater too. Needless to say, I encourage readers to try the Reverse Wash method of hair care if you are struggling like I was with dry and breaking hair. Read more about Reverse Hair Washing here. 

7. Rosewater
One of the parts of my hair care routine is to wrap my hair in a Lilla Rose bamboo cotton hair towel. Much of my hair drying now is from the hair towel, then mostly air drying during the day, and styling with Lilla Rose hair clips, hairbands or bobby pins given my long bobbed hair cut. Even if I choose to blow dry, these other two items, the bamboo hair towel, and rosewater have been serving to protect my hair from excessive heat from the blow dryer. Rosewater spray is a natural heat protectant, made only from Bulgarian organic rose petals and collected through water hydrosol. The fragrance is light and like that of a rose still on the plant, for those of us who have scent aversions, and it quickly dissipates. There is nothing overpowering.

See all The Benefits of Rosewater On Hair And Skin. 

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Rosewater: heat protectant and detangler


Here is to strong, healthy looking hair that grows strong at the root, just like self care in 2020.

Blessings, 

Deb

Blessed is the one who is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither-whatever they do prospers. Psalm 1:1a & 3

How To Create Beachy Waves For Your Hair In Five Easy Steps

It’s no secret. I am bored stiff growing out my neurosurgeon undercut hair style. While I am grateful he was able to remove my acoustic neuroma tumor, and I’m thankful for the skilled hands of his “day job”, I hope he’s never a hair stylist on the side. Growing a 2 by 8 inch section of my hair around my ear from my face to behind my ear for more than 9 months has been tedious, and I’ve grown weary of my inability to do much with my hair while I wait. I shortened my hair length once my head incision was healed and a little less tender in May, at 6 months post op. For most of this time, I’ve been wearing it down, or pulled back into a half back-not even a full half up- while that shaved hair grows. There were other patchy areas of my head affected by surgery too where hair needed to regrow. It’s been a series of not pretty events.

Many months ago, Lilla Rose released a new product, Sea Salt Spray, used to create and hold beachy waves. While my hair and all my daughters hair was very long, we were not impressed when we did a test pilot run of the product. We felt like it made our hair sticky, greasy, and weighted it down.

However, in the past few weeks, due to the boredom with my hair and the limited ways I can wear it, and noting that the regrowth is at the awkward stage of sticking out in any direction it wants, no longer being hidden by longer hair, I decided to try the Sea Salt Spray again. Now I can honestly say, I at least like it well enough to use it for the purpose of creating waves. For the time being, it is allowing me a different option for a daily easy hair style. When I was much younger, I always longed for loose curls. I don’t have curls, but at least I have loose waves.

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What I’ve been doing:

  1. After washing my hair, I wrap it in my Lilla Rose hair towel for about 15 minutes.
  2. I brush out my damp hair with my Wet brush, spray in Lilla Rose Rose Water to tame my wiry silver hair strands, and blow dry the top back and my forehead area to create some lift.
  3. I finger comb my top areas into place, and scrunch the remainder of my hair while spraying Lilla Rose Sea Salt Spray.
  4. I then let it air dry, but I continue to scrunch my entire head is dry.
  5. I’ve also been pulling what would be my bang area back a little and securing with a bobby pin or Lilla Rose mini hair clip to keep my hair out of my face. Sometimes I spray in additional Sea Salt Spray to tighten the beachy wave just a little bit.

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Have you ever tried Sea Salt Spray to create waves or to secure wispy waves in your hair? What were your results? Tell me in the comments.

Blessings,

Deb

9 Nutrients For Growing Healthy Hair

As most of my readers know, in October, 2018, I was diagnosed with a benign vestibular schwannoma, or acoustic neuroma as it is also called. It is a tumor that arises off of the vestibular nerve that controls gait, balance, and the main nerve for hearing that connects to the brain. My tumor was a big larger than large, displacing my brain stem, causing shortness of breath, temperature control issues, some hydrocephalus, and necrosis of the tumor. At diagnosis, my situation was deemed critical enough to report to the ER, as it could have been life threatening. There’s a phone call you hate making to your parents, let me tell you.

On November 29th, 2018 my tumor was removed after being on decadron, a steroid, to relieve brain inflammation all that time. My shortness of breath and temperature control issues were managed, but my dizziness, facial numbness, tinnitus, massive fatigue, and hearing loss were not. In fact, the only thing that is not permanent, even after surgery, is facial numbness. I have facial paralysis turned facial synkinesis, but most facial function is returning through time, soft tissue mobilization therapy and neuromuscular retraining. I am permanently deaf in my right ear as the nerve was severed. My tinnitus is permanent because my brain thinks it can still hear. It’s trying to make sense of the sounds it can feel. I do still have occasional dizziness because I worked hard in vestibular therapy, but I’m no longer a fall risk. I have fatigue and brain fog, especially after being around noise. Single sided hearing is a challenge, as sound discernment is often not possible. That may be playing a part in the fatigue and brain fog.

All that being said, while I was recovering from surgery, and after my fabulous not so fashionable neuro-surgical hair cut, I needed to know what I needed to eat and be nutritionally sound to heal well, and to grow my hair back as quickly as I could. I sell hair clips as my business, after all, and hair is needed for demonstrating that.

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9 Nutrients for Growing Healthy Hair

In the course of that nutrition research, this e-book, 9 Nutrients for Growing Healthy Hair got written, and it is has literally been how I eat. What else did I have to do, besides lots of vestibular therapy, but focus on writing an e-book and my nutritional status?

I’d love to share it with you. Let me know in the comments if this helps you! I hope it does. You can access it free here.

The good news is that i stayed healthy all the time I’ve been recovering from surgery. My muscles have grown stronger through exercise and therapy. My head where my incision was made healed nicely with no infection. My physical/vestibular therapists have been working on myofascia release in order to prevent cervicogenic dizziness, no scar adhering to my scalp, and to relieve scalp and craniotomy tenderness. My brain mri shows only continued brain stem healing and only scar tissue and a small piece of tumor left to preserve my facial nerve. My facial paralysis is healing.

Diet is not a cure all, nor does it necessarily mean someone will never be sick. Exercise is not a cure all, and maybe it will help in the prevention of future illness.  Good nutritional status does give the best shot at best healing.

I do hope good nutrition continues to help my hair grow! The shaved sections of my head now have hair that is at my ear lobe. My goal is to have grown out my surgical hair cut by November, a full year since surgery. My hair styling technique is very boring while I wait for that to happen.

Goals are good. Good nutrition is good. Exercise is good. Keeping it all in balance-that’s good too.

Blessings,

Deb