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What Are Benefits Of Using A Silk Pillowcase In Hair Health?

Silk, more specifically a silk pillowcase, has many properties that may lend itself to being a healthier option for your hair, especially if you are noticing hair fall, dry hair, or hair breakage. I’m always considering healthier lifestyle alternatives, and using silk pillowcases is something I’ve been doing for several months. I mention silk pillowcases in my free e-book 23 Tips for a Healthy Scalp & Hair. Feel free to download it here. A healthy diet and drinking enough water is also important for hair and scalp health. Want to know more about the possible benefits of using a silk pillowcase to your hair? Keep reading below!

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Obviously, changing to using a silk pillowcase is not a magic cure all for your hair care, but there may be some good benefits in hair care and self care. Heat styling without protectant, lots of chemical hair processing, very tight pulling hair styles, and medical problems are the first main reasons for hair health problems, and should always be addressed with a doctor and hair stylist. But, there are some possible benefits to using them in your self care. (Find more on healthy self care here.)

First, silk pillowcases don’t absorb moisture or hair oils since they are not as porous as other fibers, and they may provide less hair friction. These two properties could help reduce drying out hair and help to prevent tangles, frizz, and breakage. This is especially important for ladies with natural hair or extra curly hair. They leave moisture and hair oils in the hair where it belongs. But, also, regular hair trims and using daily conditioner, for even those of us without dry hair, is important. Again, drinking plenty of water is also important for hair hydration.

Second, silk pillowcases do not retain heat. For anyone who runs hot or is going through menopause, this may be especially helpful for keeping heads (and necks) cooler.

Third, silk pillowcases are hypoallergenic. Again, this alone is not a magic bullet for those with allergies. Regular pillowcase and sheet washing, along with pillow and mattress protectors is also important. For those allergic to cotton or other textile fibers, however, using silk could be helpful.

Fourth, they are also anti microbial. If you go to bed with wet hair, you may find that you have less propensity for hair fungal problems using a silk pillowcase as a result.

Fifth, silk pillowcases, since they reduce friction, often extend the life of a hair style, especially a blow out style. This could mean less product and less heat styling for those who often straighten their hair.

How to Choose a Silk Pillowcase

Be sure to choose a silk pillowcase that uses a silk fiber, rather than one that is a satin weave. The pillowcase fiber should contain at least 70% natural fibers, and not additives.
According to the Washington Post, choose silk pillowcases with “Global Organic Textile Standard, which means a product is made of at least 70 percent natural fibers, and OEKO-TEX, which means the product doesn’t contain chemicals or additives.”
Silk fabric weight is measured in terms of “momme.” When choosing a silk pillowcase, some experts recommend a momme count between 15-30. Some say those with a momme count over 22 is best.
The price of the silk pillowcase will depend on the grade of the silk. Silk fiber is graded A-C. Grade A is smoothest and finest. Prepare to spend up to $40/pillowcase.

Caring for Your Silk Pillowcase

Washing by hand is preferred. Turning it inside out, submerge the pillow case in water and detergent for 30 minutes. Rinse in cool water. Do not wring, but push excess water out and lay flat to dry on a rack.
If you choose to wash by machine, choose a cold delicate cycle with low spin. Insert in a laundry bag turned inside out. Do not wash with other fiber sheets or items. Air dry on a flat drying rack.

This is the pillowcase I chose for myself. I found it on Amazon. (This is an Amazon affiliate link. An affiliate link means that, at no extra cost to you, when you click through a link and make a purchase, I may receive a small commission which allows this blog to remain active.) It is available in 28 or so colors and in multiple bed pillow sizes. Silk pillow cases make great gifts when pampering a loved one!

Again there is no magic bullet to my hair care in using this product. I do notice less hair fall on my pillow in the morning, less bed head, and I can go longer between hair washings. I also noticed that even with night sweats, my pillowcase is not wet and my head is remaining cooler. I also use this in conjunction with my Reverse Method hair care method, weekly Masque treatments, and with Lilla Rose hair accessories.

Other sources used for this post: Good Housekeeping and New York Post.

7 Hair Care Essentials for Good Self Care in 2020

Most of us desire strong, healthy looking hair. It seems like trends and fads, though, keep us chasing after the newest shiniest objects promising us health or the kind of hair we wish we had, rather than what is always best for us. Healthy hair, though, goes beyond the latest shampoo or conditioner brand promise, beyond the latest “natural healing compound”, and beyond even regular trims at the hair dresser. Healthy hair starts and grows at the root, and gaining health after a set back starts at the roots too.

What can you do besides using caution in having very tight hair styles, regular trims, conditioning, gentle brushing before washing, reduce heat tool use, and be sure you are checking ingredients of conditioners and shampoos and using the same brands of those?

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The following seven blog posts help guide us back to those roots, and interestingly, most also guide us back to general health. There are just no short cuts to gaining or retaining good health or healthy hair, I’ve learned this past year.

1. Water
As discussed in Six Ways Drinking Water Benefits Hair and Scalp there are lots of great reasons for health to generally be drinking more water. Our bodies are 2/3 water. Drinking water is superior to any other fluid intake, like soda, coffee, or other beverages.

What are the many benefits of drinking water for hair and the scalp?

First, one of the major benefits to drinking more water is a hydrated scalp, which reduces flaking, itching, and dandruff. A good shampoo helps, but hydration is important.

Second, for adequate hydration prevents hair loss and promotes hair growth. Water repairs hair and adds needed nutrients. It even makes hair shinier.

Third, increasing water intake prevents hair breakage and frizz. Especially if there is frequent chemical processing, which dries out hair, being hydrated strengthens cuticles and hair follicles.

Next, drinking more water balances hair pH, as well as filters excess toxins and minerals found in blood that affect hair health.

In addition, “Water activates all these nerve endings and other sensors in our skin and scalp that enhances the natural vitality of hair roots.”

Finally, hair hygiene also matters. Rinsing hair in cool water, rather than hot water promotes shine and gloss. Softer water makes hair more manageable, and prevents color fade.

2. Promoting Healthy Hair and Scalp in Hygiene: Infection Prevention
In Promoting Healthy Hair and Scalp in Hygiene, I discuss the dangers of going to sleep with wet hair. Going to bed with wet hair sets up conditions for a warm, moist environment for a fungal infection, especially since it takes so long for hair to dry. Scrunchie or fabric hair ties harbor fungal infection, and allows the infection to spread if it’s not washed in a hot wash/dry every few days. It also holds in the dampness and prevents air flow to the scalp. Cotton pillowcases cause drying hair to stay on a damp warm surface, thereby promoting more fungus growth.

Once a fungal infection (dermatophytes) sets up on the scalp, often called ringworm (tinea capitis), there is a red scaly rash with irregular borders on the scalp. “The fungi attack the outer layer of skin on the scalp and the hair shaft.” The infection literally cuts the hair at the follicle shaft, so hair loss is occurring. There may be itching and burning. There are photos and more information of what the condition looks like at the Mayo Clinic website.

It is contagious in that the fungus is on anything the scalp touches. This includes hair styling tools (comb/brush), elastics and barrettes and scrunchies. It includes pillow cases, coat hoods, and hats. A child who shares any of those items can also spread the infection to another child, or even to a beloved pet, as carriers of the infection. A family might also find that the infection carrier is actually that pet who could be asymptomatic!

Read more about the fungal treatments, how to handle, and prevention tips in Promoting Healthy Hair & Scalp: Ringworm Prevention Tips.

3. 23 Tips for a Healthy Scalp & Hair
In 23 Tips for a Healthy Scalp & Hair, I discuss how there are a lot of opinions about how to have a healthy hair and scalp. Not all of the advice given is based on science or research.Testing for cosmetics and hair products is done by manufacturers selling the product. The FDA gets involved only when there is a problem with a product.

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23 Tips For A Healthy Scalp & Hair

In my free downloadable e-book, I list twenty-three tips for seeking a healthier scalp and hair. The tips involve use of hair tools, how to keep the tools, towels, and pillowcases clean, best hair care practices, hair hygiene, and best health care practices in diet. You can see the full post here.

4. 9 Nutrients for Growing Healthy Hair
While I was recovering from surgery, and after my fabulous not so fashionable neuro-surgical hair cut, I needed to know what I needed to eat and be nutritionally sound to heal well, and to grow my hair back as quickly as I could. I sell hair clips as my business, after all, and hair is needed for demonstrating that.

9 Nutrients For Growing Healthy Hair

In the course of that nutrition research, I wrote an e-book to share, 9 Nutrients for Growing Healthy Hair. It is has literally been how I eat, and continue to do so. Honestly, it was how I’ve wanted to eat, like a craving for good health. As it turns out what is good for hair is also good for healing. Read the full post here. This is exactly what my body also needed for gaining my physical strength and incisional healing too. This is a no fad plan.

5. Three Tools We Use For Stronger Healthier Hair
I’ve alluded before, especially in my Lilla Rose video, that our family has had various not so pretty hair issues in the past. A few years ago, we found three tools for our arsenal of better hair care leading to better hair health and two of those were recommended to us by our hair stylist. In Three Tools We Use for Stronger Healthier Hair I share those tools that benefited us.

We had to gently twist A-Grape’s hair back in July/August of 2013 in order to hide a bald spot and she only had enough hair to gather into a mini Lilla Rose flexi clip.

6. Reverse Hair Washing
In early 2017, I switched to using Art Naturals Organic Moroccan Argan Oil Shampoo and Conditioner in my reverse hair washing method. I’ve faithfully conditioned, leaving the conditioner on for 3-5 minutes in the shower, and then washed. Sometimes I would condition after washing too. I stopped doing coconut oil “deep condition” treatments. I enjoy fewer fly aways, shiny, soft hair. My grays are softer and sparkle. I’ve noted, too, that while my hair is air drying, it is actually drying faster. I now use a Lilla Rose bamboo hair towel and rosewater too. Needless to say, I encourage readers to try the Reverse Wash method of hair care if you are struggling like I was with dry and breaking hair. Read more about Reverse Hair Washing here.

7. Rosewater
One of the parts of my hair care routine is to wrap my hair in a Lilla Rose bamboo cotton hair towel. Much of my hair drying now is from the hair towel, then mostly air drying during the day, and styling with Lilla Rose hair clips, hairbands or bobby pins given my long bobbed hair cut. Even if I choose to blow dry, these other two items, the bamboo hair towel, and rosewater have been serving to protect my hair from excessive heat from the blow dryer. Rosewater spray is a natural heat protectant, made only from Bulgarian organic rose petals and collected through water hydrosol. The fragrance is light and like that of a rose still on the plant, for those of us who have scent aversions, and it quickly dissipates. There is nothing overpowering.

See all The Benefits of Rosewater On Hair And Skin.

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Rosewater: heat protectant and detangler

Here is to strong, healthy looking hair that grows strong at the root, just like self care in 2020.

Blessings,

Deb

Blessed is the one who is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither-whatever they do prospers. Psalm 1:1a & 3

Reflecting On The Every Day Beauty & Every Day Goodness In A Changing Season

It’s been a season for sure, and it’s good to be back! It is vendor show season again, and the busiest time of a retail person’s year. I am thrilled to be back at it, and at shows I had to cancel last November. I’m literally giddy with excitement. Tomorrow morning marks vendor event #3 for November! I spent many hours of my recovery in hopeful expectation that I would be able to face this month as normal! That I’m back at vendor shows is pretty remarkable giving the outcomes that I could have had after last fall’s diagnosis and myriad of other issues our family had in the six weeks leading up to my brain surgery.

In the past couple of months, as I’ve come up on one year of crisis overload, I’ve spent quite a bit of time reflecting on last fall’s traumatic diagnosis of a brain tumor that created gait imbalance conditions, facial paralysis, and single sided deafness. I’ve reflected also on a myriad of large and small things for which to be grateful since diagnosis day.

The Season is Changing.

It’s been one year, and the sensations of trauma and fear that the tumor was growing back weren’t far from the back of my mind. Last month it was confirmed that the large cavern in my brain created by the tumor and its eviction is still healing, and I’m going to need much more time to finish healing. What was also confirmed, though, is that the tumor is not growing back at this time. Maybe next fall I’ll be able to face the “trauma anniversaries” with a little less fear and trepidation!

After my surgery last November, I spent a few months using a walker and in therapy re-learning how to be steady on my feet, and adjusting to what being single sided deaf is like. In the months leading up to my “one year trauma date”, though, I’d already been back working at vendor shows, doing online work, had driven to New England to be with family for a wedding, preparing freezer meals for our fall homeschool schedule, and had attended a couple of the Lilla Rose Regional trainings. It felt good to be doing “normal” things again, even if all conditions are not back to full normal. While they may never be, I’m grateful at least for “more normal.”

I love that my youngest daughter can play with my hair again! I missed her gentle touch and her “creations.”

To distract myself from some of the fear and trepidation of “what ifs,” of my upcoming brain MRI and neurosurgeon follow up appointments, I’ve found myself “testing” what more I can do physically that is like my “old normal”, or to try things I’ve never done before. For instance, over the summer we kayaked and rowed a boat, and i did the paddling. I was so grateful not just to find out I’m still capable and love it, but I’m grateful that I get to do it again!

September rolled around, and we were at the apple farm where there is a zip line. Realizing I’ve been granted a second chance, as a person who has never zip lined, I signed the safety waiver, harnessed up, and zip lined for the first time in my life, even though I myself wondered if that was such a good idea! Feelings of not knowing where your head and body are in space because of an impaired vestibular system might make zip lining an inappropriate activity, and even my neurosurgeon was a bit surprised that I had tried it. But I did, and had fun, and probably would even do it again.

In October, the hubby and I took a weekend away. Sleepy Bear Dunes weren’t too far away, and I’ve never climbed the sand dunes. I chose the longest one, the one we hear is most difficult, and had I not run out of water, I believe i would have conquered those hills and miles of shifting sand. Running out of water and getting dehydrated is a real cause for concern for me, so alas, I was not able to finish, going only half way to the lake, despite my will and perseverance to go further. Sometimes wisdom has to win the day. At least now I can say I have climbed sand dunes, and I’m prepared to try again in the spring with extra water bottles on board, and with stronger physical muscles and well being.

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I know this season of my life is changing. My daughters are older, and while they’ve been doing vendor shows and Lilla Rose business with me, they are wanting to pursue other interests. One is graduating this year. Since I am not able to do much lifting and carrying, setting up for shows is going to be more difficult. Expect to see me with a more online presence, working with blogging and influencers. Expect to see me mentoring other women in business who are at home and working moms, who are homeschoolers, who are volunteers, who have chronic illnesses and trauma to overcome, or who are facing seasons of life changes.

I get it. All. I’m walking those seasons, trauma, and chronic illness.

It is all still Every Day Beauty and Every Day Goodness.

One of the most beautiful moments of my recovery, just days after surgery and still in the hospital, obviously not at my best and definitely at the hardest and lowest points of my life, a surprise visitor walked into my room.To say I was stunned would be an understatement.

The owner and CEO of Lilla Rose, developer of the flexi hair clip, flew from warm, sunny California to Chicago, drove 2.5 hours to my hospital room in Michigan in snow and cold to spend a few hours of an afternoon with me and my family. This was during the busiest month of his company’s selling season too. And then he drove back to Chicago to fly back to California. I will always be grateful for this sacrifice of his time and energy and resources. He talked business skills with my children over lunch, visited with my husband, and took their minds off one of the scariest times of their lives too. John Dorsey, owner/CEO of Lilla Rose, is proof of Every Day Beauty and Every Day Goodness. And maybe a little Every Day Crazy too.

Seasons change. Life is hard.

We can choose to live in fear, in failure, in staying stuck, or, we can choose overcoming in Hope and in pressing on. We can choose every day gratitude and goodness in seasonal changes and hardships. We can choose community and collaboration rather than isolation. We can choose celebration of accomplishment in reaching small goals. We can choose a different path or the other fork in the road.

I’d love for you to choose the Lilla Rose fork with me.

Until November 21st. Every Day Beauty with Lilla Rose is proof of more Every Day Goodness with Lilla Rose. There is added bonus to signing up this weekend, so if you’d like to chat with me about that benefit, leave me a comment or a message below.

This is not just a low risk opportunity.

It’s a high benefit, every day beautiful, every day good one, of which I’m grateful to be a part. I’m grateful for continued long range vision and plan with Lilla Rose.

Even as my seasons change, the road is long, the hill is steep, and the sands shift, I’m thankful for the second chances to continue moving forward.

I wonder what we’ll conquer next! I hope you’ll consider joining and growing with me!

Blessings,