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A Lesson From The Robins

We had a sweet Mama robin bird build her nest under our deck. It’s a great place to build a nest. The robins have been building in that same spot all eleven years we’ve lived here.

Photo of an original drawing by Thing A.

Our younger children have enjoyed observing the Mama sit on her eggs for days and days, both through the deck boards and from our walk out level. This weekend we noted that Mama bird was bringing little worms to open, squeaking beaks poking over the edge of the nest.

Sadly, this afternoon, our cats broke into the nest and kidnapped the babies. I had very sad little girls who witnessed the dirty deeds. When mother cat, Katrina, upset the nest, 9 month old kitten Uno was right below for her share of the kill. Our girls just sobbed, torn between being angry with their beloved cats, and devastated that baby birds were murdered during an act of nature.

Mother Bird remained understandably angry and upset for a couple of hours. She made a LOT of noise. Interestingly, though, a whole flock of robins came alongside her and joined the angry chorus. They tried to distract our cats by making a lot of noise, dive bombing at our cats to get them away from the nest and the dying babies, even after our cats had taken them far from the nest, and tried to get the cats to chase them into the trees.

I had no idea birds reacted in this way! I’ve never seen a flock of birds rally around each other!

It was amazing to observe them trying to help the babies and the Mama bird, and to express outrage. Normally, we hear only happy chirping and occasional squabbling.


People all around us are hurting like our Mama bird and her babies.

Friends, we need to be like a flock of robins. We need to help each other out. It’s really okay to squawk and fight for someone when necessary. Sometimes holding fellow robins or murdering cats accountable IS the loving thing to do. Discernment and wisdom should be exercised, because it’s also wisdom to know when being quiet is going to meet the needs. Not everything we think needs to come out of our mouths or onto our social media outlets. Let’s listen more to and for the needs of those around us. Let’s protect and defend the weaker ones, and those who are innocents.

My little girl grabbed her Bible for comfort. She asked me to help her find the “verses about the sparrows” so she could underline the passages. She read out loud:

“Are not five sparrows sold for two pennies? Yet not one of them is forgotten by God. Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Don’t be afraid; you are (people are) worth more than many sparrows.”

Luke 12: 6-7

She then said “Boy, Mom. God must love me an awful lot. He loves sparrows/robins and doesn’t forget them. He knows how many hairs I have because He created me. I’m worth more than sparrows and robins.”

Comforted, my sweet girl dried her tears.

God loves hurting people more than robin babies and Mama robins.

Let’s love hurting people, even as we might also be hurting people too.

Blessings,

Deb

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Don’t you just love the video’s music piece, Toccata, by Johann Sebastian Bach?

You Are Welcome

Last night we were in the ER with our A-Grape who hadn’t been feeling well yesterday, but whose fever got very high, she began vomiting, and became lethargic and limp. Our poor sweet eight year old girl was trying to cooperate with doctors and nurses and answer their questions, but she was too weak for even that.

Do you know what I noticed?

No matter what anyone did to her, or how lousy she felt, every single time a medical professional talked to her, or examined her, or even just came in the room,  she said “Thank you.”

The nurse brought her a cup to pee in. “Thank you, ma’am.”

As the doctor left the room after doing a throat culture that made her gag, she looked at him and said “Thank you.”

The phlebotomist poked her with a needle and hurt her, and she said “OW!” but laid still for him. When he was finished filling his vial, she looked him in the eye and said “That hurt! But you were so good at that. Thank you!”

At one point, the nurse stopped what she was doing and said “A-Grape, I’ve noticed that you keep saying “Thank you.” Can I just say thank you for saying thank you! Many adults do not possess the manners which you clearly have.”

Nurse Kelsey brought A-Grape a popsicle, and she responded with a huge smile and a big “Thank you!”

And even we, her parents, had the pleasure of hearing our precious daughter say “Thank you, Mommy and Daddy, for being here with me, and for being kind, wonderful parents. *sniff* She even tried to make up little poems. 

Several hours after arriving to the hospital, a new and improved feeling A-Grape was discharged for home.

And, as we walked out of the hospital, every doctor, nurse, tech, or intake person she remembered seeing got a big and hearty “Thank you.” as we walked out the door.

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Friends, “many adults do not possess the manners” which my daughter showed last night. Social media is fraught with poor manners, manipulative memes on all sides of any argument, and with folks saying vile things. When I was a little girl, my mother used to tell my brothers and I, “If you don’t have anything nice to say, say nothing at all.” It seems time for some adults to re-examine what and how they say things, what they post, and perhaps they need to say nothing at all if they can’t edify, encourage, live at peace, be patient, strive to do what is good for others, and give thanks from time to time.

Can we all give this some thought and behave at least as well as an eight year old?

Thank you!

Be Blessed,

Deb

Romans 12:18 If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.

Titus 3:1-2 Remind the people to be subject to rulers and authorities, to be obedient, to be ready to do whatever is good, to slander no one, to be peaceable and considerate, and always to be gentle toward everyone.

 1 Thessalonians 5:12-18 Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing. Now we ask you, brothers and sisters, to acknowledge those who work hard among you, who care for you in the Lord and who admonish you. Hold them in the highest regard in love because of their work. Live in peace with each other. And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone.  Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always strive to do what is good for each other and for everyone else. Rejoice always,  pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.

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What Happens…

What happens when the Holy Spirit is at work in a message is that the Lord speaks to the littlest or least mature person and to the oldest or more mature in the same message. 

In the church we’ve been attending in recent months, for instance, the pastor is preaching to adults, but my 7 year old is in the worship service listening to the sermon, following in her Bible, and taking notes alongside us.

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Her take away may not be as sophisticated as my now 50 year old spiritually mature husband’s take away, but she is learning because the Holy Spirit is working through the pastor’s message. We know she is learning from the questions she asks, or the observations she makes about what she has heard or read during the sermon.

God’s word, when treated with integrity, respect, and reverence, speaks to all ages at the same time, and there is no need to pitch or to water down the message to the less spiritually mature. People hear what the Holy Spirit wants them to hear through the Word of God.

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“Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever. Do not be carried away by all kinds of strange teachings…” Hebrews 13:8-9a

To God be the glory for what He is doing in my children’s lives as they learn spiritual truth. I’m grateful to be one of the tools He uses to sharpen those truths instilled in them by the Holy Spirit.

Blessings,

Deb