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2019 Summer Reading Programs & Lists: A Lilla Rose Reading Incentive

Many businesses encourage kids to read over the summer. Many also offer incentives for meeting minimum reading requirements. Some of those requirements include a minimum number of reading minutes, and some require a minimum number of books. Often, one of the requirements is that the reading is in addition to a school summer reading list, and the two should not be the same. 

Some of these businesses include local libraries, Barnes and Noble, Books a Million, and restaurants such as Chuck E Cheese. Even Six Flags has a reading incentive program! There is a list of businesses and their incentives here. 

Personally, I get a little sad that I’m no longer eligible as an adult for any of these reading incentive programs! Sometimes I need an incentive and accountability to reach my goals! Besides, why should children have all the fun! Adults want to be rewarded too!

I made an ambitious reading list for myself last week. Many of these books have been on my nightstand or stacked on my desk or near my bed for, uh, years. I thought I would read more while I recovered from my surgery, but vision and dry eyes was a problem. Yep. There’s always an excuse. Ask me how reading off the list is still going.

Not good. I have a nursing license continuing ed class and a blogging class to do too. But, if I’m going to keep my own children reading throughout the summer, I need to do it too. I also finally feel back on my game.

My reading list is divided into four categories: Biographies, Fiction, Faith, and Business. I have listed it below, so maybe that will give me some accountability! Throughout the summer I will try to do reviews of a few of the books, at least.

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Summer 2019 Reading List

My 2019 Summer Reading List
June 15-August 31, 2019

Biographies

Fiction

Faith

Business

I decided that I would encourage other children and adults to read a minimum of ten books each this summer. I am offering an incentive on my Lilla Rose with LoveLeavingLegacy business page. I’m offering a gift certificate giveaway. For every ten books above and beyond the original ten books, a lady or child (boy or girl) will be entered in a gift certificate giveaway only available through me, a Lilla Rose Independent Stylist. If you are unfamiliar with Lilla Rose, you can see more here.

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Summer Reading Fun For Kids


You can find the rules for engagement for the Summer Reading Fun for Kids here and the Adult Summer Reading Fun can be found here, as well as the links to the downloadable reading trackers for each in these events.

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Adult Summer Reading Fun

A guide for finding age appropriate great books for children to immerse themselves in throughout the summer, and that won’t merely tickle their ears and eyes with twaddle type reading is Honey for A Child’s Heart. The books listed are truly books that promote wonderful, thought provoking books that build minds but are fun. It has served as a wonderful resource list for our family during our 20 years of homeschooling. Reading has been an incredible strength for all six of our children. Another great thing is that it is a fabulous resource for creating a list to take to the library! Another great book for older children is Honey for a Teen’s Heart . There is even a Honey for a Woman’s Heart!

In addition, in the Summer Reading Fun for Kids, I will also share a few Back to School easy hairstyles, hair care tips, organizational ideas, and freezer meal recipes I will be using to get us all ready back into the swing of things for the first day of school. It’s hard to believe I’m talking about Back to School already! Our school year hasn’t even ended yet!

I hope you will join us!

Blessings, 

Deb

 

 

Restoration, Renewal, & Hope: The Difference A Month Makes

Taken just five days after brain surgery, December 4, 2018

The scars on my forehead are gradually disappearing.

Forehead scars fading, January 3, 2019

My 8 inch-ish C-shaped incision behind my ear where a piece of bone was removed for surgery and then replaced with titanium screws is also healing. The muscles and nerves there do cause me some discomfort, and I’m having to be sure I’m moving and stretching by turning my head often enough to avoid creating strictures.

I need to keep my head on straight! Literally.

The hair behind my ear was clean shaven for the incision during surgery. The neurosurgeon left a layer of hair that adequately covers that scar. He shouldn’t quit his day job, but it’s clear he is good at what he does do! The good news is that my hair in that area is already an inch long. We’ll see what I do for a hair style once everything is healed, hair grows long enough, and I can return to my actual hair stylist. That is our friend’s, Michael at Identities in Kalamazoo, area of expertise.

I’m nearly off all pain medication. I’ve been off steroids for about 10-14 days. I am definitely thinking more clearly now that I don’t have a tumor, am not on steroids, and I’m going off pain medication. I’m finding myself less tired during the day too.

I’ve walked up to 3300 steps out on the road in front of our house with my bright red walker. There is one small hill that I call “you won’t own me” that does get my heart rate up and kicks my rear. Last year at this time I would not have even considered it a hill to be conquered. In doing my walking, I have put myself in great shape for the vestibular physical therapy I’m doing at Core Balance in Kalamazoo three times/week, an hour each time. And boy, let me tell you I leave there with rubber legs. I work hard. They are encouraging me to do as much as can at home, and that includes walking, grocery shopping, housework and homeschooling, but nothing that involves ladders.

I’m sleeping, and that is HUGE. It’s an incredible gift.

I still have facial droop and numbness. I still can’t blink my right eye, and if I’m not careful, could actually sleep with one eye open. I CAN drink with a straw and eat on my right side, although I have to be careful not to bite myself. I have hope that this will result in full facial functioning in coming weeks or months. While I was at Walmart the other day, I forgot that I need a straw to drink . I took a swig of Sprite and spilled it all down my front at the checkout. That is embarrassing, and frankly, this is part of a grief process that I am going through. Even though the people that love me aren’t noticing some of my limitations, I do. And they can’t be minimized to me. I don’t like scaring children when I try to smile at them, and can only do what looks like a grimace. Strangers can just be rude, and that is hard to take.

Keep your big girl pants on, Deb.

That’s harder to embrace than I realized it would be. And, often, my family receives the impact of my impatience, anger, and demoralized feelings. So here I am on January 3rd, trying to keep up the good fight and to keep faith. (2 Timothy 4:7)

January 3rd, the difference a month makes: forehead scars are lightening, less tired looking, inflammation reducing, same attempt at smiling.

Clinging to Restoration, Renewal, and Hope in 2019,

Deb

Real

Hi, Family and Friends. It’s been since December 5th that I’ve been able to update, and after a rigorous few days up here at Mary Free Bed in Grand Rapids, I thought I’d give a quick update.

I had a piece of my skull bone behind my ear removed during surgery, and I still have quite . a bit of brain and scalp swelling from that. I still have facial droop. Speech is good, though, and so is swallowing.

I am still really unable to handle visitors, and that is mostly because of the vestibular hearing loss and brain processing. I can’t handle more than a few minutes of talking at a time without severe exhaustion, and I can’t have competing noises. I can’t handle the television or music either.

At my initial arrival to Mary Free Bed, I was still a fall risk. I basically have done nothing independent of a nurse or patient tech until today since prior to surgery. I’ve been working with PT, OT, and ST all week and weekend since my arrival. There were many impairments pre-surgery, actually, that we were not aware were impairments until I started therapy here. What I’ve learned is that for every day one takes of rest prior to surgery, four days of therapy are added to the post surgery regimen!

I worked really hard at PT through the weekend, actually, and today for the first time am able to self ambulate around my room and to do self care. Until Peter is cleared for my safety, which he needs to be up here for, I am not able to walk halls. This would benefit me greatly and benefit my ability to go home, but I also need him to see what I’ve been doing for therapy so we don’t have competing agendas. I will be going home with some assistive devices, but mostly for when I’m running errands or doing PT. I will be doing therapy three times/week once home, and in an outpatient situation. I will be in therapy for at least a year. The surgical recovery is only what is up to 3 months, but brain recovery is going to take much, much longer.

The long and short is this: I’ve worked really hard these last few days, and as a result of that hard work, will get sutures removed on Thursday and will likely be discharged to home on Friday. I still need to keep a low profile for quite a while longer.

We still don’t have a radiation verdict.

The girls were up here last night to visit for the first time since prior to surgery. It was a hard visit. There are lots of “scary” feelings, and concerns. When they left, I was super homesick, though.

I miss my family.

God is good, and I am grateful for everything.

I am grateful to be here.

I’m grateful for healing, even if it is going to take a long time.

In the meantime, we’ve had a new well dug. Hopefully that will be fixed by the time I’m home. I’m uncertain of the communication behind this process. Peter is trying to finish semesters, the kids are doing school. We’re trying to keep a sense of normalcy when nothing is normal. And there are already a ton of appointments to be sorted through all the way through February.

My parents are leaving this weekend.

So that is my “real.”

That is our “real.”

Blessings,

Deb